Lets Draw Some New Norms.

PC Relationship

NO!! It's not about Priyanka Chopra's relationship. This PC is all about something else. Today morning while going through my WhatsApp status I came across one post. That post was something like this " I asked my parents to knock at my door before entering. They laughed/slapped." This is hilarious but belonging to an Indian family we all can feel the warmth of this situation.

So Yes, Now you are guessing it right. The PC is here"Parents-children " relationship.

Parents-child/children relationship is one of the strongest bonds we share on this planet. But Still, it varies from persons to persons, families to families, and even from places to places so on. If I say about India only, Still now There are more families where the child is or the children are not treated as a separate individual even after a certain age of being an adult. To be obvious like anything else there may be some exceptions but I am putting forward the general majority things. Kids are not allowed to raise their voices about their dreams and goals, even about their opinions. Hardly few from them were heard but then as common parents overrule them too. And with this certain way of treatment, we don't see any major difference when it's about marriage also.

In India, we don't treat our parents as our friends. we don't usually share our weakness, our secrets with them. we definitely avoid all these out of respects or like we are not allowed to do so??

There are subtle changes with each passing generation but as we all know we Indians hold our roots tight, things are not that different.

Isn't time we review our thinking??

Our generation is in the emerging trend of such relations. It's not too late yet, let's make some changes for the future, for the upcoming generations of India. Let draw some new norms as follows.

Parents will help in bringing up the child as usual in the best possible way but up to a certain age limit. The limit may be up to 16 or 18 or till they are not able to take care of their own living. Parents shouldn't spend all their worth earn money for the kids as considering it as an investment for their old age. Even also our almighty Krishna said in GITA " That its parents love to grow up a child with the best of everything but without expecting the same in return. if they do, then its no more termed as "love", it is named as "business". " Therefore they should secure an amount for their own golden years. There should be no parental forced involvement while choosing a certain profession or a partner. With the growing time, there shouldn't be any special attention given to the kids by their parents. Kids are provided with education and that is important, now the kids have to earn their own livelihood. And about the property distribution follow the line of Bill Gates. "Leave just sufficient for them, the rest – if you have surplus -- give away in philanthropy. If you don’t have enough, that’s fine too."